Getting Back Together with your EX

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What to do when your relationship ended and you still love your ex.

Get back together!

If you are willing to go the extra mile and ask him or her to forgive and accept you back in their arms, you really should. But what are you supposed to do?

It’s not easy to convince someone who was willing to let us go to consider taking us back. If the problem wasn’t their fault in the first place, they might still be hurting.

Luckily, I chanced upon this article in Your Tango, entitled “How to Get your Ex Boyfriend Back” and I am happy to share.

The key to winning him back apparently lies in the subtlety of your efforts. From liking and commenting on his social media posts, getting his friends involved, to once in a while messages, girls can win back their ex without seeming desperate. That is, if he is worthy of the effort.

The article goes on to say:

When a relationship ends and you don’t want it to, not talking to your ex can be extraordinarily painful. It can be so painful that staying in bed, crying, and being unable to eat are all common symptoms of heartbreak. This is why calling your ex and asking for another chance seems like the obvious choice; you want him back and that seems like the way to do it. But, it’s actually not, and the reason for this is pretty simple.

It comes down to basic human psychology. There are a few different sayings that attest to the way human emotions work when something disappears from life, such as, “you never know what you’ve got until it’s gone” and, “you always want what you can’t have.”

The key is to make him think that you’ve closed the door, but left a window open. In other words, you will have to distance yourself during the first stages of the breakup.

When he starts to miss you because you are gone, he will reach out. This is when you let him know that you missed him too. Plan only works if you are patient and subtle.

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Written by Jill May